If you are a crossdresser and have the opportunity to spend the night while en-femme we are going to give you some tips to make the most of it. We’ll talk about some wardrobe’s considerations, decorations for your home and general considerations to avoid any disappointment and start a very happy new year!
Setting objectives and goals to accomplish this year may be nerve wrecking in this ever changing world. But this night is about enjoying yourself and having a great time with your loved ones. Christmas is, traditionally, a more family-centered holiday. But New Year’s Eve is more often than not spent with friends outside the family. Even if you are going to a party or event you might find many of the recommendations below very useful.
1. Outfit Tips for a Long Night
It is a hard enough decision choosing what to wear when going out, even more so on a night when everyone is dressed to their nines! Even though the traditional outfit for new year’s eve is pristine white, the dress code tends to be more forgiving than on Christmas. Nevertheless, there are many options to go with and still be properly dressed. Below, there are the most important considerations regarding
Wearing a white outfit may bring some troubles along that we wish to avoid, especially if the menu for the night is something that can stain your clothes. Be mindful of it when you are deciding what to wear.
Also, white clothes tend to be a little transparent depending on the fabric. Check in your mirror how you look and if there’s any unwanted see-through in your clothes.
Unlike Christmas, there are many people sporting a more flamboyant look. It is okay to go for a sparkly dress if you are comfortable in it.
Feel free to carry a bag with a different outfit if you are having dinner with your family and go out later!
Heels are like the icing on the cake for your outfit. But it may be very tiring wearing them all night long. Carrying a pair of lower heels with you may come in hand later as night goes by. Change your shoes at times where everyone’s relaxed or tipsy and no one will notice!
If a lot of dancing and standing is in order, you can even bring some slippers for later one. No one wants to start the new year with sore feet!
2. Completing Your Holiday Look
Another thing you can do to get your holidays mood on, is going to a nail salon and having a festive manicure! Be mindful of what colors or style will go best with the outfit you have in mind for a glamorous look.
If you are going for a sparkly look, a champagne-inspired nail art is a great idea. You can match it either with a white outfit with golden jewelry or with a golden outfit and jewelry of your favorite color for a distinctive touch.
Another great idea if you are looking for a holiday inspired nail art is fireworks. This way you add versatility to make it match more easily with your outfit.
Matching your make-up with your nails and outfit will sure steal away many looks. Take your time to think ahead of this so you avoid any last minute crisis!
If you are going with a firework-inspired nail style try looking for a make-up style with lots of colors. Getting an appointment with a make-up artist can be a good idea. If you have confidence in your make-up skills you can even do it yourself.
Instead, if you are going with the golden theme, try matching your nails with golden eye shadow and colored jewelry.
You can look for inspiration on the web when deciding your style. Here are some lovely looks to get your creativity started.
3. Choosing Where to Spend the Night
With this dreadful virus going around, the places where to spend New Year’s Eve may be lacking. Depending on where you live, there may be more or less circulating restrictions. Nonetheless, I’m going to provide you with some viable alternatives so you can have an amazing night. If you are still deciding on what to do on the last night of the year, keep the following tips in mind.
If you live in a city where most places are open, it may be a good idea to go to a friendly place to toast with other people for the last time this year. As always, it is better not to go alone and having some friends to go with you is always recommended.
If on the contrary you prefer a more private event, there are many private parties organized almost everywhere. Be sure to check if the party is friendly to crossdressers and it is in a safe place.
Going on a New Year’s Eve escapade with your most intimate social circle is the ultimate way to spend the holidays. You can rent a place in the countryside to get away from everyday stress and acquaintances. Imagine the toast with your friends at the river side!
Wherever you are planning to go, dress properly to the situation. A sparkly dress may be a good choice if you are going to a fancy party but if you are having a quiet night, then white may be more appropriate.
Speaking of, avoid drinking alcohol heavily. Besides not being very glamorous, it will ruin most of the feminine essence you want to project. Believe me, it is hard enough to walk in high heels, let alone if you are a little tipsy!
If you are having dinner with your family, only you can decide for yourself how much crossdressing you can do on new year’s eve. But don’t be too quick to judge the acceptance the younger generations are capable of. It may be a good time to come out with some select family members and start changing social standards before even the new year begins!
4. Decorating with Style
When setting up the table you can add a centerpiece. New Year’s Eve will definitely have a time when everybody sits down to eat and you can flaunt yourself with your decorative skills. You can use a candle holder and some flowers with the color scheme to add your personal touch.
The mantle is a very important piece when decorating your dinner table. Use one that fits your chosen color scheme.
For the walls you can use lights and garland wreaths. If you have an empty wall you can use it to hang your favorite photos of this year.
5. Making New Year’s Resolutions
Everyone wants to be at least a little bit happier than last year. Making New Year’s resolutions can be stressful but we must remember they are guidelines that we want to achieve for the next year. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you didn’t accomplish some of last year’s resolutions.
The important thing is that you keep moving towards your objectives and fulfilling them as long as it makes you happy to do that. Do you want to find some friends that share the same interests with you? Get involved in social media and local communities. Do you wish to improve your life financially? Start thinking out of the box and specialize a bit each day in things you love. Do you want to come out to someone you love? Think with care when to do so and do it. Maybe this post can help you with that. These last two years have been confusing to say the least.
With so many uncertainties in this epoch, it is a great time to start looking inwards and discover what are the things that make us happy. And only then can we start thinking how to make them a reality. Don’t let your fears get in the way of your happiness and self love. New Year’s Eve is a good time as any to start caring more for you and those around you. Even if you think it’s a cliché to do so on this day, never is a bad time to think about your life and the path you choose in search for happiness.
There are many ways and places where you can spend New Year’s Eve as you can see. Even more so, you can start a new tradition with friends and family. Who knows, maybe an opposite gender themed party can become a yearly tradition. Whatever you choose to do or feel obligated to, I hope that you can spend time with your loved ones on a peaceful and grateful night. Seize the time to enjoy it with your friends and family and receive this 2024 with a smile on your face! I wish you all a very happy new year and see you next one!
Happy New Year Sissy Family
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